The Secret to Getting Anything You Want
1. Pay Attention and be Aware
2. Listen
3. Let People Talk and Shut Up
4. Be Generous and Give
5. Think
Repeat this process until you feel like you have done enough. Then…
1. Pay More Attention and Be More Aware
2. Listen More
3. Let People Talk More and Shut Up
4. Be Even More Generous and Give More
5. Think More
Repeat this process and don’t stop!
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